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You’ve likely heard (and felt) that the first 10-15 minutes of a GCC meeting matter.
The public version of that idea is familiar: rapport, warmth, don’t rush.
This subscriber-only edition goes deeper into what’s actually being assessed in those minutes, and how to use them to earn something more valuable than “a good meeting”:
permission to be candid, and access to the real decision logic.
1) The first 15 minutes are not “small talk”, they’re a risk screen
In many GCC settings, a client is silently screening for risk in three dimensions:
A) Social risk: Will you embarrass someone senior? Will you trigger defensiveness?
B) Reputational risk: Will you say the wrong thing in the wrong channel, or to the wrong person?
C) Loyalty risk: Are you here for them, or for the transaction?
Technical skill is assumed. These are the variables that determine whether you’re invited into the real conversation.
If you want a clean mental model:
The opening is the client asking:
“Can I trust you with the part of this matter I haven’t written down?”
2) Power in the GCC often comes in pairs: “Principals” and “Protectors”
This is the part most international lawyers miss.
In many Gulf organizations, the true decision dynamic often involves:
Principals: the ultimate deciders (chair, founder, family principal, ministerial-level sponsor, board chair, senior exec).
Protectors: the people who guard the principal’s time, reputation, and exposure (chief of staff, trusted adviser, senior legal manager, senior finance/controller, senior EA who controls access, longtime consultant).
Sometimes the protector is the person you’re briefing every week.
In the first 15 minutes, protectors are quietly testing:
Do you make their principal look wise?
Do you create clean options that can be repeated upward?
Do you understand what cannot be said in front of whom?
If you win the protector, you don’t just “have a good meeting.” You gain runway.
3) The three things you should “secure” before you go technical
Before you go clause-by-clause, aim to secure three forms of consent:
(i) Consent to speak plainly
You want a moment where the room signals: “Yes, we can be direct with you.”
Script:
“To protect you properly, I may be candid on one or two points. If anything should be framed differently for internal stakeholders, please tell me.”
This is a subtle show of respect: you’re not performing bluntness, you’re asking for permission to protect them.
(ii) Consent on the decision frame
In GCC meetings, people may evaluate “best” differently: reputationally, politically, socially, or religiously, not only legally.
Script:
“Before we go into drafting, may I confirm what matters most today: speed, certainty, discretion, cost, or optics?”
Once you get the frame, your advice lands as aligned, not argumentative.
(iii) Consent on who is “in the room”
Often, the people present are not the full stakeholder map.
Script:
“Just so we support you properly, who else needs to be comfortable with this direction after this meeting?”
This prevents the classic outcome: “We agreed,” then nothing moves.
4) How to read a GCC room in 90 seconds (a practical “power map”)
Forget the org chart. Here’s what to watch in the opening:
Who greets whom first (and who waits for whom).
Who speaks last (or who is given the last word).
Who others glance at before answering (especially on sensitive points).
Who summarizes (often the real authority, even if quiet).
Who introduces you (being “presented” carries meaning).
And one high-signal detail:
If someone is doing a lot of “translation” on behalf of another person (even in English), they may be a protector managing face and risk.
Your goal is not to expose this dynamic. Your goal is to respect it.
5) The move that changes your status: “Protect, don’t correct”
A common foreign-lawyer instinct is to correct.
In GCC senior settings, correction can feel like a threat to dignity.
The more effective move is to protect.
Instead of:
“This is incorrect.”
Try:
“There is a way to proceed on that basis, but it creates exposure in A and B. There’s a safer alternative that protects you better in front of [board/regulator/counterparty].”
Same substance. Completely different social outcome.
If you remember only one line from this issue, make it this:
In the GCC, the lawyer who protects face becomes the lawyer who gets called early.
6) A real-world pattern: the “polite meeting” that wasn’t alignment
Here’s a scenario I see repeatedly:
The meeting is warm.
Everyone nods.
The client says, “Good, good.”
You send a long email summary.
Then… silence, delays, “we will revert.”
What happened?
Often: the internal stakeholder who matters most (principal/protector) didn’t get an easy narrative to repeat upward.
Your solution is not more analysis, it’s a more explainable story.
Try ending the meeting with a narrative that can be repeated:
Script:
“If you had to summarize today in one line for [Chair/Board/Principal], would it be fair to say the safe path is Option B because it protects you on [X], while still achieving [Y]?”
This gives your contact words that travel.
7) Three “openings” that earn trust at different seniority levels
Use the one that matches the room:
Opening A: The senior/principal room (dignity + outcomes)
“Thank you for having us. Before we go into details, may I confirm what outcome matters most for you today?”
Opening B: The protector room (risk + forwardability)
“Thank you. I’ll keep this practical and easy to brief upward. I’ll flag the key risks, then the clean options.”
Opening C: The working-team room (pace + clarity)
“Let’s be efficient: I’ll summarize the key points, then we’ll assign next steps and timing.”
Each one signals you understand the type of meeting you’re in.
8) The subscriber-only tool: a 15-minute meeting audit you can reuse
After your next GCC meeting, answer these quickly:
Who was the principal (if any)? Who was the protector?
What was the real decision frame (speed, optics, cost, discretion, certainty)?
Did I secure permission to be candid? If not, why not?
Did I provide a narrative that can be repeated upward in one sentence?
Did I protect face publicly and calibrate privately where needed?
Did my follow-up email pass the “forwardability test”?
If you run this audit for four weeks, your instincts sharpen dramatically.
9) The follow-up note that actually gets forwarded (template)
Subject: As discussed - headline decisions & next step
Decisions:
…
…
Open points:
…
…
Sensitivity (carefully phrased):
“One point to handle with care is [X], as it may be perceived as [Y] by [stakeholder].”Recommended next step:
“If you’re comfortable, we suggest [single next step] by [date], then we can finalize [next milestone].”
This reads like an executive brief, not a legal memoir.
One question (hit reply)
What is the topic, the burning question, or the unclear pattern you would like me to write about in the next issues? Help me shape this newsletter to what best serves you to succeed in the GCC.
Warm regards,
Taqua Malik
Editor, The GCC Legal Culture Review
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Until next week,